Saying "No"
I can't seem to find a word with neutral value that means "to say no." In an attempt to describe emotionally intelligent mature conversation I found myself without a word to adequately describe the part that says "no" to a request. Words like deny , reject , refuse , decline , turn - down , abstain , non-accept , veto , spurn , dismiss , object , counter offer , demur are all acceptable alternatives, and the important aspect is that saying "no" is in no way a mean, rude, or ethically (or morally) worse than saying "yes." Decline and demur seem the most uncharged, but I long for a word like the German "verneinen". They turned "no" into a verb, which - to my understanding - is different from ablehnen , verweigern , zurueckweisen , missbilligen , ausschlagen , verschmaehen , negieren . There is something about "saying no" in one tight, simple, obvious, uncharged verb that I find appealing. In my attempt to