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Saying "No"

I can't seem to find a word with neutral value that means "to say no." In an attempt to describe emotionally intelligent mature conversation I found myself without a word to adequately describe the part that says "no" to a request. Words like deny , reject , refuse ,  decline , turn - down , abstain , non-accept , veto , spurn , dismiss , object , counter offer , demur are all acceptable alternatives, and the important aspect is that saying "no" is in no way a mean, rude, or ethically (or morally) worse than saying "yes." Decline and demur seem the most uncharged, but I long for a word like the German "verneinen". They turned "no" into a verb, which - to my understanding - is different from ablehnen , verweigern , zurueckweisen , missbilligen , ausschlagen , verschmaehen , negieren . There is something about "saying no" in one tight, simple, obvious, uncharged verb that I find appealing. In my attempt to

Dr. Frasier Winslow Crain

Oscar Wilde Quotes There  are only  two tragedies in life : one is not getting what one wants, and the other is getting it.

Post 2 - Food Science, Chemistry, and Alcohol

Science, Chemistry, and Alcohol The imminent and extemporized second post I have a deep, hobbyist's interest in food science. Unfortunately, as with so many of my interests: I can't claim to have a propensity or predisposition for it (them? well.. here "science"). Cooking, on the other hand, has been - throughout my life - my only successfully (or consistently successful) creative endeavor. Before I navigate away from that fairly provocative admission, please indulge this brief departure. I prefer to describe my type of art making not as a creative art, but that of a  re -creative art. From the mouth (or fingers, as it were) of a musician the above statement - I hypothesize - might seem, if not unlikely, a gross equivocation. Maybe you're thinking: You're an opera singer, and a bass player by trade. Music is a creative art. As an opera singer aren't you also an actor? You're a "creative-type!" Don't you also draw? Don't you

Post Number 1 - An Introduction and neo-livejournaling

Dear Readers, A Preamble -  ossia opening self-reflection It's likely that no one will read this blog. On the off-chance that I share a post or some - rather aimless - internet wanderer stumbles upon a post, the probability that he/she/they will then, on his/her/their own accord, scroll through (or down) to this introductory post doesn't seem high. Yes, full disclosure: there is no scientific data that supports my argument. I base these thoughts on, what I sometimes call, "social wisdom" or "country wisdom." The concept is not far removed from, if not a hue or shade of the well known dictum "street smarts" or "common sense." Frankly, I am using a single source as my basis for this opening paragraph: Me. I admit, under a shadow of hubris and self-criticism, the likely-hood/probability that I am proposing is reflective of my own web-surfing [does one even still call it that?], but I have no reason to believe that I am an exception, no